You said,”YES!” so you can say,”NO!”
Your wedding day is in fact YOUR wedding day. Just because you said yes to the forever does not mean you have to say yes to every piece of advice people give you. If you don’t think it’s something you truly want, even if it’s traditional/popular…then say no. Honestly, learning to say,”“No.” is actually something you learn is more freeing in life.
So, The S#!T They Should’ve You is saying NO is okay. Your day will be less stressful if you just keep it to the things that make you and your better half happy.